Whether black, white, weaved up or all natural most women seem to share a common thought: DON’T Touch Our Hair Men!
Scratch that… Maybe white women don’t share this thought (le duh, silly me)
But yes, Black Men should especially know this. I’m surprised every time they fail to abide by the rules. Let me break it down for you: It has nothing to do with whether her hair is real or fake. Let’s put it in perspective, shall we?….
For most woman, it takes time to style our hair and when we leave the house…call us crazy… but we kind of like to, confidently, know that our hair looks just as fly as it looked when we left the house. And just another crazy thought but we kind of equally enjoy looking nice for you –>Yes Guys!… Its not only about us <– So when you run your hands… your dirty hands… through our hair, pat our hair or play with strands you may think there’s no problem but to the owner of that hair… You just messed up my do Negro! That’s when our natural defense mechanism kicks in and you get either the side eye or the “shoo away”, or even worse: The smack on the hand. Not quite the response you’d expect for such an intimate gesture right? Just trying to protect ya, male friends.
Moral of the story: Please DON’T Touch The Hair!
That is all : )
PS. This Just In: Some white girls don’t like their hair touched either. Booh yah! lol