Life throws whims. Some so hard they can smack the sex drive out of your guy. This month alone, I’ve encountered several sob stories from girls crumbling under the weight of their boyfriend’s sex embargoes. Each of their bf’s are stressed to the max with issues of personal tragedy and work misery. As boyfriend sings the blues, respective girlfriend is left locked out of his chastity pants in the heat without a key in sight. What to do, what to do? It’s a strange, de-feminizing role reversal that women aren’t always well versed in – having to beg a boy for buns. Sexual rejection is alien to most women. So when it finally does occur, it upper-cuts women with multiple jabs that hit nerves of sexual frustration and NOW personal rejection. She is infuriated, hurt, and above all horny. Wise men call this the danger zone…
Ladies, before detonating please, please check out the advice our male minds had to offer about dealing with a bf’s limp libido ….
“We guys aren’t always the best with dealing with our emotions. So although, I don’t – it doesn’t surprise me to hear that some guys lose their sex drives when dealing with stress. I urge their women to communicate and be honest about wanting sex. It’s her responsibility to get him back in the mood- she may have to get really creative/kinky/ open-minded and physically force his mind on something other than his problems. If there’s ever a time for a 3- some this is it!” - Ahmed, 26
“Just talk to him. Let him get ample opportunity to deal and release with all that’s on his mind. If he’s dealing with a personal loss, she may just have to deal with waiting longer than she’s comfortable with, but if she’s a rider and really loves him she will. Communication is key and can unlock and problem in a relationship- even if that problem is his chastity pants!” - Armani, 24
“If a guy’s sex drive suddenly goes down and he’s leaving his lady unattended to, chances are he’s probably taking his stress out, on top, or under somebody else. I recommend her stepping out and doing her. There is no point in allowing someone’s stress to become your personal stress. It’s like a big chain of misery. Break the cycle and cheat girl.” - Joseph, 29
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