And Ya Friend’s Bad Too: 3 BIG Ways You Accidently Encourage Him To Mind F-ck Your BFFs

Posted by By Guerdley at 26 July, at 11 : 16 AM Print

And Ya Friend’s Bad Too: 3 BIG Ways You Accidently Encourage Him To Mind F-ck Your BFFs

Not so fun fact:

Over 68% of men have admitted to thinking about having sex with one of their partner’s friend’s during sex and another 12% admitted that they haven’t, but have had to restrain them self from doing so.

Told ya. Not fun at all right? Sh-t’s wack.

In all reality though, are we really shocked? Bird’s of a feather flock together, especially the ones with pretty wings (#ConceitedGirlProblems). So yes, he is in fact still loving every bit of your downward dog, but there’s a slight 80% chance he’s also curious about your BFFs yoganastics too. Now there’s no way anyone could truly goalie someone else’s wet wonton thoughts, nor would we ever recommend it. However ladies, there’s a couple of things we could do, or stop doing, to help, or rather unhelp the process.

Caught up with a couple of my favorite guys to find out some of the ways we women fertilize his dirty little seeds. Carry on:

1.) Our Complete Disbelief That 3 Is A Crowd

“I had a girlfriend who’s best friend came out with us all the time. I guess my girl was trying to not make her feel left out or whatever, but after a while I started feeling like I was in a relationship with both of them. She was around all the time. We going out? Oh Blah-Blah-Blah’s coming too. Again really? Fine. Eventually I turned my annoyance into some interesting daydreams.” –Ryan, 27

2.) Those Cute Little “Which One Of My Friends..” Just For Fun Entrapment Questions

“EVERY chick asks that question and I don’t know why! Like do you really wanna know what I think about your fine ass cousin? Come on now. Don’t put any more ideas in our heads.” –Emmanuel, 23

3.) Those Crazy College Days/ Wild Club Night/ One Time At Band Camp Stories We Love To Revisit, Ya Know, Just For Kicks

“I think girls think it’s cute to talk about that time they kissed a girl and they liked it or dance with other girls, whatever. But if you ever had a one time crazy night with your friend, don’t sit there and outline it for him. He’s only going to think he has a chance.” –Kylem, 28

In all honestly, a wandering mind is a terribly exhausting thing to monitor and we don’t recommend any woman to waste a moment of her life fighting this losing battle. While, yes secretly mind banging a boo’s bestie ranks high on the triflin totem pole, estrogen aside, it’s reality. And there’s nothing (besides helpingĀ  to un-motivate it ) you can do prevent it. Afterall, mind-blowing O’s and mental illegalities are ace-boon-coons. The most important thing to remember is that you’re relationship with your girlfriends are as sacred and important as your relationship with your guy, and both deserve their own level of personal investment and personal story time, so avoid menaging at all costs. Lastly, remain secure –there’s not a survey result under the sun that can successfully rationalize jealous behavior. Plus, the only and true crime worth stoning is if those thoughts of his should ever become tangible requests or actions. Then at which, the ball’s in your hands. Try not to take that literally…

Is mind banging a boo’s bestie considered cheating? Would you want your guy to let you know if he ever has? Speak on it @WWMDtv

Bye now!



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  1. "AVOID MENAGING AT ALL COST" ??????? REALLY….. Please don't preach that. Menaging is fair play and open to conversation. Obviously on a case by case basis based on your relationship. But don't preach that. Ya'll (women) are already on the fence as it is. Maybe you should preach being more open………….. IJS

    "E", 2 years ago Reply

  2. I think it depends on the context of the conversation. It's okay for your guy to say he thinks your friend is pretty but its not okay for your guy to say he has thought of sleeping with your friend…I don't know some things are better left unsaid. A statement like that is unnecessary.

    Ally, 2 years ago Reply

  3. Yea 3 is a crowd! I think there has to be a balance! You can't always be with your friend and your boyfriend at the same time. I find that to be annoying because sometimes you may want to spend time alone with your man. I agree with all three points especially the "which one of my friends" questions, don't ask that! U may be opening something that you should have kept closed. Great article

    Reese, 2 years ago Reply

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