How To Handle An “I-F’n-Told-You-So” Moment With Grace #LessonsFromEvAndJenn #BBW

Posted by By Guerdley at 16 August, at 14 : 11 PM Print

A story all too familiar. Two BFFs: Single Jenn and Boo’d-Up Evelyn. Single BFF doesn’t like Boo’d-Up BFF’s BF (you following?) now these two BFFs have serious beef (like wrestle mania beef). Only for then later this controversial BF, ChadOchoCinco, to make an ass out of everybody by showing his (or in more recent news, his iron clad forehead).

Messy right? Always.

SMDH. Tried to talk to’em. Even drafted up a guide for chicks quick to throw the 2′s over a dude, but still –they don’t hear us though. We keep ending up here: where (formerly) Bood-Up BFF, in this case Evelyn, is left heartbroken, ashamed, and retrospectively mad foolish. And now single BFF, Jenn has an extreme “I-F’n-Told-You-So” worldwide proclamation entitled to her –with benefits.

But should she be so inclined?

It’s kind of hard not to, right? Especially after months of enduring slander, wild defamation, and proactive threats, who can truly resist the victory dance owed to the wrongly accused? Most of us would A-Town stomp on our humility and bask in the glory of just cause just because. Or at least, as my dear friend Chazeen would advise, do it in the privacy of your own home (ha!).

But alas, rachetness and decency can co-exist. If there’s one thing we can all learn from Jenn it’s that when you take the high road, they can’t see you. And trust it’s compliment to be beyond the average peripheral. Recently taking her condolences to twitter she issued a general statement that took to the hearts of anyone with one:

In short while you’re feeling yourself, make it a point to really feel that former BFF and what they’re going through right about now. If chick’s even part mortal, chances are she’s dying a slow miserable emo-death on multiple plateaus that only cut by deep canyons. Un-fun times. Use that pitiful reality as a motivator to muster up some empathy if it feels foreign. Also, remember everybody plays the fool. We all have to make our own hella stupid mistakes to learn from. Jenn made hers (everything that is, was and shall ever be Eric Williams) and Ev’s in the process of realizing hers. And while we do love to talk about that loyal b-tch Kharma and her wonderfully consistent ways, remember those are her ways, not to be confused with yours! Vengeance isn’t ours –it’s Kharma’s, so play your position! And in case you forgot, (because life tends to be distracting and reality TV life is shamelessly contradictory) the goal is growth — to be bigger and better. What Jenn went through, and the cray BS we all go through in the screwface of adversity, only makes us stronger. So prove it…If you should be so inclined.

Are you proud of Jenn? Do you think this will change the face BBW? Is dropping a bestfriend for a guy a ever worth it? Go on, keep it real @wwmdtv

Virtual Hug,

@_guerdley

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